your not as over weight as me hun...lol i wobble and fall over with my brain problem and weight dont help my movement .....i used to go to the gym ,didnt enjoy it but did it before i was ill but now my muscles just dont work correctly if you can manage to do some now hun at the weigt you are it will be good and helpful after all thats why all them people are at the gym and weights cos they want what you want ...a healthier body dont be like me sweetie and not think about the future ,struggling around being the odd fatso that cant keep up with the kids .do it for you and for them . i left it too late hun now im trying for my grandkids but its so so hard .